In general I don’t care about who sleeps with who or a Kardashian. In this moment I don’t actually care except the fallout of this latest shit show brings to mind so many issues with our society.

It’s not even with the obsession with the Kardasians, that is what it is, people are going to focus on and tune in regardless of what I think.

The story Jordyn tells on ‘Aunt’ Jada’s talk show is that after a night at the club, she went to an after party which happened to be at Tristian’s house.

Let’s start there. ‘Aunt’ Jada nodded as this young woman said her first mistake was going. I’m sorry what? Have the argument with someone else about if she should be out at the club and going to after partys. She was, deal with it. It’s something that kids and young people do, and not at all unusual. She’s 21. If she wants to party that’s her decision. My issue is the idea that a woman she looks up to, respects, loves is endorsing her self blame.

No Jordyn, there was nothing wrong with you going to a party at Tristian’s house. In fact, in theory, you should have been SAFER there than at another party because you are a ‘friend’ of the family. Your decision to do what you would have otherwise done, at the location you did is nothing you have to accept responsibility for.

Jordyn says in hindsight that she should have declined when she learned the location, but she didn’t give thought to how Khloé might feel. She didnt think it would/should be an issue, and it shouldn’t be an issue if we are keeping it real.

The problem seems to be that Tristian threw a party. He’s also a grown man, capable of dong that which the fuck he wants to do. If his girlfriend is not happy about him throwing a party, that is not the problem of those in attendance. He knew you – the girlfriend – would not like it and he did it anyway. Expressing your displeasure to the people who attended is not the solution. The question you need to ask yourself is, if this is the person you chose and they know they are doing something you would not like, and they are already on thin ice after fucking up, and still doing shit you dont like then what are they trying to tell you?

Jordyn goes on to say when she left Tristian gave her a kiss on the mouth.

I kiss people on the mouth all the time. According to Jordyn there was no tongue, no making out a good bye peck on her way out the door.

Assuming it was just an innocent peck again this is a ‘family’ friend. While it’s not necessarily ‘normal’ its certainly not something to call TMZ over. If you’re struggling with it let me help you. He kissed a woman without her consent. Feel better now? I sure don’t.

I don’t feel better because while I can relate to and understand why Aunt Jada wants this child to understand telling the whole truth all the time is the best path in life, I can’t get past her – Jada’s – nodding approval as this girl took responsibility for this whole clusterfuck.

If she’s being honest her crime here is existing. It is certainly possible that to protect a woman she’s known for years and considers a big sister that she chose to not disclose a peck on the lips. This child actually said it was her responsibility that a man her elder in a relationship with someone else kissed her without her permission. Da fuck? Allowing her to accept the blame for her sexual harassement isn’t helping her Auntie.

It isn’t helping her when she’s being harassed online and her physical safety is now in danger because a culture which made this family hundreds of millions of dollars has now turned on this child when her crime, is existing.

While I have big time issues with Khloé taking to the Internet to call this kid a liar…I at the same time sickened by the responses of people who dislike Khloé. The names I’ve seen her called, the attacks on her looks are no better than the K-Stans who are harassing Jordyn. This is a woman who in a very public fashion has to live out the disillusion of a relationship with the father of her child. Yes she chooses to live a large segment of her life in public, but it doesnt make her any less a human being.

This is one of those moments which makes me want to put humanity in rice.

There just aren’t an winners here.

Aphrodite Brown