It keeps popping up because there won’t ever be a moment in time when you forget I am everything you cannot ever be, ever.

No matter how many rants and raves you post about ‘winning’, it will not ever be the truth.

My victory was then, is now and will be tomorrow that I am not defined by a relationship. Period.

I don’t ‘win’ by getting ‘picked’ by a partner. I win because I am brilliant and bold and unapologetic in my presentation.

I win because I don’t need the confirmation of patriarchy to determine my worth.

I win because I don’t have to be taught how to cut a pineapple.

I win because my ‘mate’ isn’t at the Best Western in Benicia with:

I “lost” the relationship but even then – I win. & because you aren’t evolved enough to understand WHY I won, you remain …….