F.U.C.K.

Fundamental Understanding of Consent in Kink

The difference between an orgasm and a felony. 

Navigating consent in the #MeToo arena is pretty damn scary for some.  When the media delivers a daily dose of guess who fucked up this time, it can be a challenge to figure out how to get your kink on, safely.  This workshop is designed to celebrate active and enthusiastic consent. We explore consent in an interactive way, with real life role playing and engagement.  Yes is a sexy word so let’s figure out how to hear it, early and often, without diluting the energy of your kink exchange.

SAY LESS 

Non-Verbal Communication & Cues 

Enjoy the Silence is not just a kick ass song from DepecheMode.  As the parent of a non-verbal child I have 18+ years experience in how to have entire conversations while saying nothing. Non verbal communication extends beyond the dance of seduction so this workshop is divided into 2 parts. Part one explores the mundane, all of the things we do with our clothes on which tell our story.  Part two explores the complexity of clothes coming off [ or already gone ] with limited words.  We still want to hear that empowering and emphatic YES, but there are ways to get there without killing your sexy vibe.

MIRROR IMAGES

The Language and Action of Inclusion

If you are Cis Gendered & heterosexual or a member of the LGBQIA+ umbrella, odds are you want to see those who look like you around at events. In this session we explore the benefits of inclusion.  We investigate the differences between inclusion and diversity.  Participants will also leave with new vocabulary as we learn pronoun usage, sexuality terms and definitions.  While there will always be a time and place for special interest groups and events, let’s consider the possibilities of a world where we look into the kink event mirror and see all the shades of humanity present.

ENTRAPMENT

Manifesting Your Accomplice In Kink

Entrapment is a three [3] Part Series.  The goal of the series is to assist the attendee with identifying the Law of Attraction and applying it to their kink journey.  We cannot navigate this journey alone.  We need friends, lovers, mentors ….accomplices to live our best kinky lives.  Through worksheets, group exercises, and group applications Entrapment is the key to unlocking the secret to what you seek in kink.

BETTER BOTTOMING

The 5 Ws to Making Someone Want to Hit You and KEEP Hitting You

A BDSM bottom doesn’t have a scene alone.  An unattached BDSM bottom might be on the search for someone to connect with them  This workshop is designed to enhance the S&M experience.  We are not having things done TO us, we are doing things WITH our top.  Special attention is given on how to walk through and navigate ‘pick up play’.

This workshop has a 24 page supplemental booklet available for order here:  https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0C5KLNT79?ref_=dbs_m_mng_rwt_calw_tpbk_0&storeType=ebooks&qid=1685911329&sr=8-2

Closing the Distance 

3000 to ZERO Miles

While we are not all in this to find a ‘partner’, this being WIITWD, that doesn’t mean connections don’t happen. Human beings require connection, and our type of humans require specific connection.

When you meet someone who checks all the boxes, and feels like they are someone you cannot live without, what do you do when distance is your barrier to living your best BDSM life? Sometimes you relocate. It’s been done with varying degrees of success, and my workshop is designed to increase your odds of success if you decide to take that plunge.

While nothing in life is guaranteed, as I am living breathing proof, what I can provide are tools to identify if relocation makes sense, help it make CENTS, and what to do in those first weeks when your commute to your person[s] is about 2 feet long.

This workshop has a 24 page supplemental booklet available for order here :  https://a.co/d/h8ifBLe

***This workshop is exclusive to a contracted event until November 2023***

*other workshops and teleconferences are currently in production – for inquires on booking see: vizionzfromthebottom@gmail.com  *