Nostalgia
I usually wait until December to do the year in review. Today seems like as good a time as any. Thanksgiving for me has been a ‘holiday’ that is pretty…meh. As a young me, I…
In the Animal Kingdom
One of the perks of being a ‘veteran’ in the BDSM streets is that you get to see what’s old become new again. In my case its something that’s always been present that I am…
Abandon All Hope…..
If you thought that I brought the pain for #PhillyvsEverybody you apparently haven’t seen me trying to avoid a relationship. King Kong ain’t got shit on me. It’s time to admit something here that I…
A Rose by Any Other Name
That ass is 47. I haven’t always liked to look at my ass. I am a Black woman with a pretty flat-ish ass and since childhood it fucked with me. I am better with it…
Run Nikki Run
One of the things I am learning is to give myself permission to do things. Sleep. Cry. Eat. Say no. I’ve spent a lot of years denying myself those things. I am still learning to…