Aftercare ….Well AppleCare Told Me…….
The concept of after care is pretty simple. After you engage in S&M take a moment to attend to the needs of your bottom. If the idea is so simple, then why is there such…
Considering Consent – Part One
In case you didn’t know it, I teach a class on consent. When you like to do things with other people which could get you dead, it’s fairly important to understand consent and what it…
Untitled Track
I’ve gotten a few notes and emails from you constant reader. You want me to dive in and discuss the psychosis behind why Black women are out here on the streets making R. Kelly great…
Diner Ruminations
Happy New Year Constant Reader. We made it. There are times when I am unsure if that can be a thing but this time we did it. Before I hop into my random thoughts, and…
Columbus
My virginity has been located. I am in a place that I’ve never been. I’ve been clear about what service looks like for me/to me. I’ve spent enough time in this lifestyle to know who/what…